Joe Martino has a new post about understanding who we are and the need to find happiness on our own. It's not about our circumstances, it is about our choices. Joe says
People who have learned to be content (and from contentment comes happiness) realize that the things that happen outside of them do not control them....No matter, where we go, we will be there. Until we learn to change the things in ourselves that we don't like we will never be truly happy. Most people who cannot learn to be happy with who they are will never be happy with someone else.
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