Joe Martino has a new blog post up at his webpage. In it he deals with the idea of measuring the cost of what we want out of life. He posits that most people know what they want but they spend little time thinking about what they are willing to pay.
Here is a quote from his article:
I am convinced that one of the reasons people rarely see real lasting change is due to the fact that they are unwilling to pay the price necessary to achieve that change. They are not willing to push through their feelings and work on their marriage. They are not willing to pick up the phone, call their child/parent and be the first one to apologize.